Friday, September 2, 2011

Breaking Up Without Breaking Down

During Memorial Day weekend, I had a heart to heart with someone very dear to me, who will remain anonymous. We talked about love, relationships, and a young man she has feelings for - dare I say love? Well, one of the things I shared with him is important to guard your heart something that I wish I had done many years ago.

Had I done so, it would saved me a lot of heartache.

I remember being totally smitten, and pulled this one man.

I could not even imagine what I would do if we got a couple of the existence of an abrupt end, although I would eventually find out. At that time I was living in a new city, only knew her friends and family, and was totally dependent on her companion. So when our relationship broke down, so did their world. I literally feel like I do not know what to do or where I belonged in the world.

I was left heartbroken and emotionally distraught. My feelings were poured out, falls on the floor and trampled over.I did not know how to navigate the years of hearing "I love you" and basking in the romantic moments spent my one and only love. Instead of saying, "Oh well, God has someone better," I cried and said: "My life is over!"

It took a long time for me to see myself as a woman who could stand on its own two feet. I was pretty shaken up. Apparently I'm not the only one who has experienced it. After coming out of this most unpleasant season of my life, I want to share some things I found out that I believe is beneficial to you.

Never Lose Yourself relationship. I once made the mistake that many women do: a man of building your life around. Although, of course, breakups are hard to handle, they are especially painful when you put so much of your heart, mind and soul of the relationship. Because of their integrity can not be dependent on the "love connection."

Because if the relationship turns bitter sweet, if you lost yourself somewhere along the way to the Union, you will find it almost impossible to move. This chapter of my life is over, but you will remain stuck in a time long gone, can not change the page. So ask God to you all during the first. Then you can lose yourself, your identity, your personality, or a trust, even if you lose that relationship.

You're worth more. After I came to a bad relationship, I was lied to and abused so badly, I second guessed my doubts that even a good man. Unfortunately I was not sure I really deserve to be with a mate who loves me as Christ loved the church, according to Ephesians 5:25. It took a lot of time, but during my healing process, God began revealing to me how valuable I was to him. When he again my mind, I finally was able to push a vicious lies that I was worthy of a framed woman who is always failing relationship. You should not accept such a lie either. Instead, I hope that you are worth far more than rubies. It does not matter what your ex you out. Ignore it and believe what God says about you. And God says you are fearfully and wonderfully made.

Guard your heart. I do not promote going to be any way for Jim-Bob. Over-dating, and have no need at all times a relationship is unhealthy. Sometimes it is better to take a break from dating and your life together, so you'll be ready when love comes your way. Even if you meet a man who seems really nice, I caution you to guard your heart. Everyone's intentions are not right, so do not allow anyone who says "I love you," or "You're beautiful," to sweep you off your feet so fast. I admit it, I did it. And it was a mistake. When he wrote me poems, sent me flowers and told me why he thought I was the most beautiful woman in the world, I was putty in hand. Try not to be so. Accept compliments and kind words for what they are, but do not allow them to put you in a cloud so high that you forget to pray for one offering compliments. All of you are not worthy of your heart.

The pain will not last forever. After an emotionally invested in a relationship that ends badly, the experience can be quite jolting. It is normal to feel like your world is shattered. Does he cheated, lied, walked away, or moved as part of a joint decision, though, and it broke my heart million pieces. But know this. Your heart can be and must be pieced back. The pain goes away. Heal your inner wounds. Thanks to the Lord, you will bounce back, how successful a woman. And when the time (and man) is true, then enters into a relationship. In the meantime, spend some time praying and seeking God for deliverance, and the isolation of any baggage. It has the power to restore your joy, peace and faith in true love.

I know a breakup can feel like a devastating blow, but you can go through without completely breaking down mentally, emotionally or physically. If you know who you are, what you're worth, and what God says to you, you live your life with joy, and arrested one.

During the time you are in the meantime, the most important thing is knowing God has a plan for you.

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