Thursday, June 25, 2009

New Love Recipe Discovered?

From The Man That Has Secretly Helped 6,100 People In 67 Countries ...
Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection...Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!
I'll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying...
Zzzzziiiiiip...CRASH!...and then the shattering sound of glass as Deidre hurls Al's Playstation 3 from the 2nd story apartment window...followed by a shrill and sobbing "GET OUT!...GET OUT!...GET OooooUT!"
See, IT WAS THE LAST STRAW! Even though Al loved Deidre with all his heart...he had lied so often... had ignored Deidre so much that she just reached her boiling point that hot, muggy summer afternoon.
And Al did get out. Deidre was serious. She had had enough of Al's ways. See, Al was a good guy a great guy even he cared deeply and loved Deidre and Deidre knew it too but that wasn't her problem. She was sick of feeling unappreciated and Al just didn't know what would make her happy anymore. He didn't know how to wipe the slate clean or start over...
And this WAS the end of Deidre and Al forever As it is the end of so many relationships
What if it didn't have to be?
What if you could recapture your ex lovers mind, heart and soul?...Wipe the slate clean? Turn back time? Even if you feel right now that your situation is too far gone too screwed up or just plain too darn complicated?
I am going to show you right in this letter the first thing Al SHOULD have done...first may I say?...
I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand and I have been there too...and I am not going to belabor on and on about the pain you feel because I know that you know it all too well
You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. You leave your radio off on your way to work because every song is a painful reminder of him. You can't even bear to eat at the same restaurants you took her to. And if that isn't bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on "their side".
If you are in pain and confused?
Here's some good news...
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse...even the worst situations you can imagine like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
There is hope...
Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief
And it's okay let me ask?
Don't you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?...or vice versa?
I bet you do and here's the strange real clincher
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair or unfaithfulness or worse even?
Think about it for a sec...
Sure! And I bet you know of or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have you know the ones I am talking about (and I know this is kind of dark)the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable
"Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!"
Seriously, Doesn't that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together under even some horrible circumstances that there could be some hidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now I am not saying they were holding some "secret love spell" book and doing weird chants not at all at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME and won back the heart of their lover...or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat...they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine...
What if? What they said...and what they did...could be "bottled" so to speak? And then you could "unbottle" it and put it to use? To erase old hurts...to reignite passion again...to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.
Yes...A Magic Love Recipe...in a sense...
You see there IS a "recipe for love" as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love
What they did by "accident" can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you...I would be somewhat skeptical right now...that's totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?
Do you have these symptoms?
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do what happens? P-A-N-I-C...defensiveness...arguments...and then it gets really nasty.
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn't really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know this is not your fault! You weren't taught this in school.You probably weren't taught this by your parents and there is no "get your ex back" night school...
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love? ..Cars?...Money?...Clothes?...ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see...all that has changed.
"T Dub" Discovers His "Love Recipe"
Please allow me to introduce myself My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird it's a long story you can just call me "T Dub" I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I'll tell you why in a second
I have been a military brat or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I've had dozens of homes in 11 countries... and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid I had to learn and learn REALLY FAST how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas "redneck" buddy of mine makes no difference
More importantly I became really good at reading people,understanding what makes them "tick" and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the "go to" guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of "people problem" I kind of felt like the male version of "Dear Abby"...
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?...someone that you go to when you have "people problems"
Anyway I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together and putting them back together after they had come apart because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.
WARNING: Unconventional Methods!
At this point, I must WARN YOU STRONGLY WARN YOU my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear he DOES IT... And next thing you know... he's back home, laying back on the couch and watching LOST with his fiance on Thursday nights.
Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don't believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt
I mean, what's a more valuable experience? Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddy's girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivys out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?
I don't know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.
Now,if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have "relationship troubles" too? If you do I think I can help Here's how I can help you...
If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can't talk too or be with everyone, I just don't have enough time but I have done what I believe to be the next best thing
I have put my years of experience into a really easy to follow love recipe for "getting back together" and again I forewarn you right now these are techniques and strategies that are NOT conventional wisdom and I doubt you have ever read or heard these techniques before. and I'll tell you this stuff works!...maybe too well?
Frankly, I get a little freaked out about just how well it works and worry that it may be used for less than honorable intentions. I mean I want to help GOOD people I don't want to help JERKS get girls back that would be better off without them. I do NOT want to help "psycho chick" steal away a married man.
Like a knife, these techniques and principles can be used for great good or grave harm.
This is NOT FOR -Stalkers -Ex Convicts -People with severe mental problems -Other Crazies, Cuckoos or Whack Jobs
Okay?
Anyway, I have titled the "recipe" simply The Magic Of Making Up See, it is my opinion that there are really no impossible situations. I have seen women not only wait on a man for months, but take back men that have spent years in prison and... I have seen men take women back that have had MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR
And everything else in between! How crazy is that? And...
You know what?
By now, I bet you really want to see some proof that this works? I would too if I were you.

Date Confident

Dating is a pain in the butt sometimes, I'll admit it. No matter how good at it you are it is still a process of sorting out the idiots from the keepers. Whether you are looking for something casual or serious, it is all about keeping your dating queue full. Handling rejection becomes part of the process but I admit I still get down when things don't work out. It even bumms me out when a woman I wasn't even that interested in won't return my calls. It is all to easy to crawl back under a rock and play too much world of warcraft instead of getting myself out again.
Here are some of my strategies to keep myself confident and in a great mood to date and meet more women:
Be Busy!
One of the worst things for your confidence is sitting home alone making excuses for why you aren't happy. I find if I have more than a couple evenings a week where I am just having "me" time, my social circle starts shrinking and I get more depressed. The busier I am usually the better I am at planning outings and staying connected with friends.
Start planning regular nights you go take a class or go do a new hobby. Not only will you meet new people, trying new things always builds confidence faster than just about anything. When you go do something send out a mass text inviting people. Even if no one shows invitations are just banking social karma. You will get more invitations the more you make.
Have a back-up plan.
Nothing gets me worse than a last minute cancellation. Then I am stuck with a whole evening that I got ready to go out and I end up sitting home watching movies. Don't let some stupid flake ruin your vibe, send out the last minute calls to see what friends are doing. Also try to find one regular event on each night of the week that you can use as a back up plan. Here in San francisco I can find a salsa class on every night of the week, as well as classes at my gym, martial arts studio, indy film theater, comedy clubs, music venues, and even museums. Make some calls and if no one is in, make yourself go anyway!
Get the phone number... from him!
Single women aren't the only people you want to get phone numbers from. Don't forget to exchange contact info with cool guys, couples, and even women in relationships. Building a strong social circle is key to being happy and confident. Add them to your mass invites and soon you might find yourself pleasantly surprised when their cute single friends start showing up too.
Get Your Conversational Skills Warmed Up.
Getting in a good mood to go out and meet people is a crucial element to being on your game. Get a pre-outing routine like listening to your favorite music or listening to a good comic to amp you up. Call a couple buddies to join you and even if they don't they will get you talking.
Start off easy!
Don't just go walk up to the hottest girl you see the moment you get there. Start off easy and go talk to some friendly people. One of the best ways I've found to get myself on the right track (even if I've just been shot down a few times) is to go find a couple of the wall flower guys standing in the corner. Ask them as an opener "Hey guys, how's your luck with the ladies tonight?" First off they will know you are not gay, secondly their luck will likely be more pathetic than yours. Giving someone else encouragement often gets you in a better mood than you could imagine.
The other benefit of this is that the guys you meet will likely still be sitting there and you can use them as a comfortable place to come back to when you are done talking with another group. Maybe even try to introduce some new people to them and you will all of a sudden be the guy that knows everyone!
Don't Crawl Back Under Your Rock!
I talk to so many guys who are having trouble and are discouraged with their dating success and in reality it boils down to one thing. They get a bit of rejection or have a bad date/interaction and instead of picking themselves back up and get back out there they sulk. There is no confidence under that rock of yours! Come out and force yourself to get out and be more social.