how to get a girl to like you

 Establishing first contact goes hand in hand with visual impression. You may have heard how women are more interested in what the person is on the "inside" rather than what is on the outside. Throw that piece of pretend-knowledge right out the window because, while women may be more forgiving of bad looks than men, the way they form first impressions is exactly the same (it's only later that you have a chance to make up for your looks with your brains).

Research shows that regardless of how politically correct and fair we would like to be, our impression of a person is still strongly based on the first few seconds. People generally think that attractive, well-kempt individuals are smarter, healthier and more sociable. Keep in mind that, these are only the IMPRESSIONS that are left on people as a result of someone's looks. As a side note, these assumptions that we make are only 1/3 correct. In truth, looks only strongly predict someone's sociability. So, now that you know this, you are probably already aware of the first thing you must address: How you look.

However, how you look is only half of what goes into making a good first visual impression. The other important aspect is how you carry yourself. Imagine the hottest stud in a full suit. He looks like he could be a CEO. Now, imagine that same hot CEO hunched over, dragging his feet as he walks, an expression of tension, anxiety or fear on his face. Does he still look hot? Not really. Many people have the potential to be very attractive, but they don't realize that how they carry themselves is not letting them reach it.

Dressing: I can't directly help you here because I don't know what you look like. Speak with various people that you know to find out what they think of your style, and whether there are things you could change in your grooming and clothing to make you more attractive to women.

How you carry yourself: Here's where I can help you. The way you carry yourself has to communicate confidence and strength. Here are some pointers.

-Don't "drag your feet". Walk with a spring in your step. Watch yourself in a mirror. Watch movies or videos of others that you think walk with confidence. Emulate them. -Don't slouch. Slouching communicates a lack of energy, which is a weakness. -Smile. Practice smiling at people as you make eye contact for the first time. It shows confidence and approachability. This is probably one of the most important things to practice. -Try not to stutter or fumble over your own words. If this is a problem for you, then most likely your solution is to consciously slow down your speech. This takes practice, so don't get discouraged. It's normal for people to mumble when they're anxious. Slowing down your speech will help you overcome that. -Watch others who appear confident, strong, and approachable. Try to emulate them.

Now, let me explain how these aspects play into a good first visual impression. Being well groomed and well dressed adds to your physical attractiveness (kind of obvious). Your physical attractiveness is further increased with a confident stance, walk and facial expression. Now here is the key to women: a smile. Yes sir, the ability to smile at any women who makes eye contact with you is a powerful tool. You can think of it as an ice breaker. So, regardless of where you are, you may come across a girl you like. If you have been well dressed and confident, all you have to do is wait for her to look at you, so that you can smile at her.

NOTE: If you're one of those guys who has trouble smiling at women because you get too nervous, then do I have the solution for you! This solution may bother some, but it works, and I've seen it work over and over again. Start going to Gogo bars (it's like a strip club except women are wearing bikinis). There, women will smile at you all the time, which will make it easier for you to smile back. At first you'll be very uncomfortable there, but as you get used to it, you will also get used to smiling at the women first. Trust me, you'll soon find yourself smiling at random women on the streets automatically.

Now, the girl may smile back at you, or look away. If she looked away then she may be uninterested, or too shy. Dealing with shy girls is another story, so for now, if the girl doesn't smile back at you, assume she's not interested and move on to the next one. 

New Love Recipe Discovered?

From The Man That Has Secretly Helped 6,100 People In 67 Countries ...
Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection...Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!
I'll take you by the hand and show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms- Especially if you are the only one trying...
Zzzzziiiiiip...CRASH!...and then the shattering sound of glass as Deidre hurls Al's Playstation 3 from the 2nd story apartment window...followed by a shrill and sobbing "GET OUT!...GET OUT!...GET OooooUT!"
See, IT WAS THE LAST STRAW! Even though Al loved Deidre with all his heart...he had lied so often... had ignored Deidre so much that she just reached her boiling point that hot, muggy summer afternoon.
And Al did get out. Deidre was serious. She had had enough of Al's ways. See, Al was a good guy a great guy even he cared deeply and loved Deidre and Deidre knew it too but that wasn't her problem. She was sick of feeling unappreciated and Al just didn't know what would make her happy anymore. He didn't know how to wipe the slate clean or start over...
And this WAS the end of Deidre and Al forever As it is the end of so many relationships
What if it didn't have to be?
What if you could recapture your ex lovers mind, heart and soul?...Wipe the slate clean? Turn back time? Even if you feel right now that your situation is too far gone too screwed up or just plain too darn complicated?
I am going to show you right in this letter the first thing Al SHOULD have done...first may I say?...
I know if you are here right now you are probably in a great deal of heart ache and pain. I understand and I have been there too...and I am not going to belabor on and on about the pain you feel because I know that you know it all too well
You already know how hard it is to just even wake up and roll out of bed in the morning. You leave your radio off on your way to work because every song is a painful reminder of him. You can't even bear to eat at the same restaurants you took her to. And if that isn't bad enough, you have to cope with the loss of friends and family that are on "their side".
If you are in pain and confused?
Here's some good news...
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse...even the worst situations you can imagine like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
There is hope...
Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief
And it's okay let me ask?
Don't you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?...or vice versa?
I bet you do and here's the strange real clincher
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair or unfaithfulness or worse even?
Think about it for a sec...
Sure! And I bet you know of or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have you know the ones I am talking about (and I know this is kind of dark)the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable
"Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!"
Seriously, Doesn't that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together under even some horrible circumstances that there could be some hidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now I am not saying they were holding some "secret love spell" book and doing weird chants not at all at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME and won back the heart of their lover...or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat...they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine...
What if? What they said...and what they did...could be "bottled" so to speak? And then you could "unbottle" it and put it to use? To erase old hurts...to reignite passion again...to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.
Yes...A Magic Love Recipe...in a sense...
You see there IS a "recipe for love" as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love
What they did by "accident" can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you...I would be somewhat skeptical right now...that's totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?
Do you have these symptoms?
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do what happens? P-A-N-I-C...defensiveness...arguments...and then it gets really nasty.
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn't really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know this is not your fault! You weren't taught this in school.You probably weren't taught this by your parents and there is no "get your ex back" night school...
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love? ..Cars?...Money?...Clothes?...ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car, managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see...all that has changed.
"T Dub" Discovers His "Love Recipe"
Please allow me to introduce myself My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird it's a long story you can just call me "T Dub" I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I'll tell you why in a second
I have been a military brat or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I've had dozens of homes in 11 countries... and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid I had to learn and learn REALLY FAST how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas "redneck" buddy of mine makes no difference
More importantly I became really good at reading people,understanding what makes them "tick" and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the "go to" guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of "people problem" I kind of felt like the male version of "Dear Abby"...
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?...someone that you go to when you have "people problems"
Anyway I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together and putting them back together after they had come apart because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.
WARNING: Unconventional Methods!
At this point, I must WARN YOU STRONGLY WARN YOU my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear he DOES IT... And next thing you know... he's back home, laying back on the couch and watching LOST with his fiance on Thursday nights.
Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don't believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt
I mean, what's a more valuable experience? Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddy's girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivys out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?
I don't know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.
Now,if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have "relationship troubles" too? If you do I think I can help Here's how I can help you...
If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can't talk too or be with everyone, I just don't have enough time but I have done what I believe to be the next best thing
I have put my years of experience into a really easy to follow love recipe for "getting back together" and again I forewarn you right now these are techniques and strategies that are NOT conventional wisdom and I doubt you have ever read or heard these techniques before. and I'll tell you this stuff works!...maybe too well?
Frankly, I get a little freaked out about just how well it works and worry that it may be used for less than honorable intentions. I mean I want to help GOOD people I don't want to help JERKS get girls back that would be better off without them. I do NOT want to help "psycho chick" steal away a married man.
Like a knife, these techniques and principles can be used for great good or grave harm.
This is NOT FOR -Stalkers -Ex Convicts -People with severe mental problems -Other Crazies, Cuckoos or Whack Jobs
Okay?
Anyway, I have titled the "recipe" simply The Magic Of Making Up See, it is my opinion that there are really no impossible situations. I have seen women not only wait on a man for months, but take back men that have spent years in prison and... I have seen men take women back that have had MORE THAN ONE AFFAIR
And everything else in between! How crazy is that? And...
You know what?
By now, I bet you really want to see some proof that this works? I would too if I were you.

Date Confident

Dating is a pain in the butt sometimes, I'll admit it. No matter how good at it you are it is still a process of sorting out the idiots from the keepers. Whether you are looking for something casual or serious, it is all about keeping your dating queue full. Handling rejection becomes part of the process but I admit I still get down when things don't work out. It even bumms me out when a woman I wasn't even that interested in won't return my calls. It is all to easy to crawl back under a rock and play too much world of warcraft instead of getting myself out again.
Here are some of my strategies to keep myself confident and in a great mood to date and meet more women:
Be Busy!
One of the worst things for your confidence is sitting home alone making excuses for why you aren't happy. I find if I have more than a couple evenings a week where I am just having "me" time, my social circle starts shrinking and I get more depressed. The busier I am usually the better I am at planning outings and staying connected with friends.
Start planning regular nights you go take a class or go do a new hobby. Not only will you meet new people, trying new things always builds confidence faster than just about anything. When you go do something send out a mass text inviting people. Even if no one shows invitations are just banking social karma. You will get more invitations the more you make.
Have a back-up plan.
Nothing gets me worse than a last minute cancellation. Then I am stuck with a whole evening that I got ready to go out and I end up sitting home watching movies. Don't let some stupid flake ruin your vibe, send out the last minute calls to see what friends are doing. Also try to find one regular event on each night of the week that you can use as a back up plan. Here in San francisco I can find a salsa class on every night of the week, as well as classes at my gym, martial arts studio, indy film theater, comedy clubs, music venues, and even museums. Make some calls and if no one is in, make yourself go anyway!
Get the phone number... from him!
Single women aren't the only people you want to get phone numbers from. Don't forget to exchange contact info with cool guys, couples, and even women in relationships. Building a strong social circle is key to being happy and confident. Add them to your mass invites and soon you might find yourself pleasantly surprised when their cute single friends start showing up too.
Get Your Conversational Skills Warmed Up.
Getting in a good mood to go out and meet people is a crucial element to being on your game. Get a pre-outing routine like listening to your favorite music or listening to a good comic to amp you up. Call a couple buddies to join you and even if they don't they will get you talking.
Start off easy!
Don't just go walk up to the hottest girl you see the moment you get there. Start off easy and go talk to some friendly people. One of the best ways I've found to get myself on the right track (even if I've just been shot down a few times) is to go find a couple of the wall flower guys standing in the corner. Ask them as an opener "Hey guys, how's your luck with the ladies tonight?" First off they will know you are not gay, secondly their luck will likely be more pathetic than yours. Giving someone else encouragement often gets you in a better mood than you could imagine.
The other benefit of this is that the guys you meet will likely still be sitting there and you can use them as a comfortable place to come back to when you are done talking with another group. Maybe even try to introduce some new people to them and you will all of a sudden be the guy that knows everyone!
Don't Crawl Back Under Your Rock!
I talk to so many guys who are having trouble and are discouraged with their dating success and in reality it boils down to one thing. They get a bit of rejection or have a bad date/interaction and instead of picking themselves back up and get back out there they sulk. There is no confidence under that rock of yours! Come out and force yourself to get out and be more social.

How To Lose Weight And Look Like A Model

Jennifer Nicole Lee, Ms. Bikini America, Ms. Bikini Universe, and Author of the Finess Model Program™

You see "her" as you pass by the magazine rack. When you're in the grocery store checkout line, "she's" looking right at you from the fitness magazine cover...

Her abs are tight, her waistline whittled, her shoulders are perfectly rounded off with muscular mushroom caps, her teeth are bright white with a smile exuding unbreakable confidence, her hair is shiny, and she stands tall upon solid strong legs with sexy sweeping quads.

She is poised, polished and statuesque with an athletic yet feminine build, as she stands tall atop solid strong legs with sweeping quads. Wearing maybe a workout outfit or a bikini, she is the epitome of health, wellness, and fitness. Her image is respected- She is a Fitness Model ™- the picture of strength and beauty that so many women strive to attain.

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You ask yourself "Could I ever look that good? How can I achieve that Fitness Model ™ look?"

Well, I'm here to tell you based on my personal experience that you can! The "Fitness Model™" physique or look, contrary to popular belief, is something that that ALL can achieve! Even if you don't want to grace the cover of a health magazine or compete, you still can achieve the LOOK of a Fitness Model™ or Competitor. With my concentration in fitness, I am qualified to be your mentor and coach- being Ms. Bikini America, Ms. Bikini Universe and the first ever Ms. Muscle and Fitness- I can and will give you quality content and top trade secrets that you MUST know to achieve this coveted cover girl body! I know what it is like first hand to spend thousands of dollars and not get the results that I needed.

I'm speaking from my own personal experience, and for other women who have gained the same results from The Fitness Model Program™, and are enjoying their "Fitness Model Program™" look!

Dear Fitness Friend, Are you interested in looking like a Fitness Model™ as quickly as possibly you can?

Using my simple and easy to follow My Fitness Model™ workout routine is simple and easy to follow!

There is NO endless cardio, fancy equipment and you don't need to be on steroids to achieve that strong yet feminine sexy muscle tone!

"The Fitness Model Program is Doctor Approved!"

The TRUTH is that ALL WOMEN CAN ACHIEVE THE "FITNESS MODEL™ LOOK!"

Even if your goals are not to appear on a fitness magazine cover, or to compete in a fitness competition on stage, you can still achieve and enjoy having the Fitness Model™ Look! And EVERYONE CAN ACHIEVE IT!

In The Fitness Model Program™ I am cutting through the fat to give you the top must do's to achieve that coveted sleek and sexy Fitness Model™ look! Before we go any further let me bust some myths-

A Very Tasty Cookie in Boise

Living in the city can be hectic. Living in a household with so much to manage yet so little time can also be demanding. It makes us resort to simple and fast solutions, like going online shopping instead of going to the stores yourself or ordering pizza instead of cooking dinner during lazy nights. It is no wonder why even simple yet time-consuming things like baking cookies also have respective fast solutions. It is why there's a very tasty cookie in Boise.

Many people prefer to buy cookie doughs instead of baking cookies themselves. One reason is that it takes only little time to make the cookies using cookie dough. You can make as many or as few cookies you want with frozen cookie dough without you wasting time or effort. There is no hassle, and no cleanup afterwards except for the cookie sheet. You'll get your cookies whenever you want it!

That Very Tasty Cookie

The owner of Very Tasty Cookie once worked for a frozen cookie dough company on the east coast. When he moved to the west, he thought of selling cookie dough for people to make fresh homemade cookies in no time. He knew the feeling of crisp dry cookies, and he knew the feeling of having no time to make homemade cookies by himself. He thought that the cookie doughs he had tried so far needed something more. And so using his experience in working in a cookie dough factory, he decided to make his own cookie dough products.

Today, Very Tasty Cookie offers two types of frozen cookie dough products with at least five tasty cookie flavors. The cookie doughs can either be preformed or pre-shaped, or not preformed in tubs. Preformed cookie doughs is in a round scooped-out form. On the other hand, cookie dough in tubs not preformed gives you the option to make a different shape and a different size out of the cookie.

Very Tasty Cookie has five flavors that you can choose from for the cookies. You can choose among snickerdoodle, chocolate chip, double chocolate, soft gingersnap, and peanut butter. The flavors aren't limited to only these five, however. You can contact the company and ask for a specific flavor, and Very Tasty Cookie will see if they can make a cookie dough especially for you.

Cookies For Fundraisers

Girl scouts are in on this one. We bake cookies for fundraisers, too. Now think of how much more cookies we can make by using cookie dough, and at so little time. Cookie dough fundraisers are popular and successful to many organizations and groups. Why wouldn't it when everyone enjoys cookies?

There isn't that much work involved in cookie dough fundraisers - another reason why it's popular for raising funds. Selling cookies is easy and it has a good profit margin. There is no hassle at all, which is why even kids could sell cookies. Very Tasty Cookie in Boise supports and help out with fundraiser programs this way. Tasty and flavored cookies will always be available in Boise through a Very Tasty Cookie.